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Sunday, October 4 · Hope Church

Serving: The Gift That Confronts Our Selfishness

God gives every believer the gift of serving, and that gift confronts the selfish ambition and conceit that come naturally to all of us by turning our attention to the needs of others, just as Jesus emptied himself and took the form of a servant.

The passages

As each has received a gift, employ it in serving one another, as good managers of the grace of God in its various forms.

1 Peter 4:10

…doing nothing through rivalry or through conceit, but in humility, each counting others better than himself; each of you not just looking to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others.

Philippians 2:3–4

The heart is deceitful above all things and it is exceedingly corrupt. Who can know it?

Jeremiah 17:9

Have this in your mind, which was also in Christ Jesus, who, existing in the form of God, didn’t consider equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being made in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death, yes, the death of the cross.

Philippians 2:5–8

…even as the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Matthew 20:28

Go deeper

Why does putting myself first come so naturally, even when I don't notice I'm doing it?

Paul says to do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, and then admits the pull toward self is already in all of us. The pastor saw it in a grandchild grabbing a toy and in a man demanding a table, and he saw it in himself. Jeremiah says the heart is deceptive enough that we can be the taker and be convinced we are the giver.

…doing nothing through rivalry or through conceit, but in humility, each counting others better than himself; each of you not just looking to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others.

Philippians 2:3–4

The heart is deceitful above all things and it is exceedingly corrupt. Who can know it?

Jeremiah 17:9

He spoke a parable to them, saying, “The ground of a certain rich man produced abundantly. He reasoned within himself, saying, ‘What will I do, because I don’t have room to store my crops?’ He said, ‘This is what I will do. I will pull down my barns, build bigger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. I will tell my soul, “Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years. Take your ease, eat, drink, and be merry.”’ “But God said to him, ‘You foolish one, tonight your soul is required of you. The things which you have prepared—whose will they be?’ So is he who lays up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God.”

Luke 12:16–21

Can I do something good for the wrong reason and not even know it?

The pastor says even good activity can be driven by sinful motives, and God sees the engine behind what we do, not only the deed. Saul looked like a king doing what kings do until Samuel asked why he had not obeyed. Doing the right thing for my own advancement is still the wrong reason.

All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes, but Yahweh weighs the motives.

Proverbs 16:2

Saul said to Samuel, “But I have obeyed Yahweh’s voice, and have gone the way which Yahweh sent me, and have brought Agag the king of Amalek, and have utterly destroyed the Amalekites. But the people took of the plunder, sheep and cattle, the best of the devoted things, to sacrifice to Yahweh your God in Gilgal.” Samuel said, “Has Yahweh as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying Yahweh’s voice? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to listen than the fat of rams. For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as idolatry and teraphim. Because you have rejected Yahweh’s word, he has also rejected you from being king.” Saul said to Samuel, “I have sinned; for I have transgressed the commandment of Yahweh and your words, because I feared the people and obeyed their voice.

1 Samuel 15:20–24

“Be careful that you don’t do your charitable giving before men, to be seen by them, or else you have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. Therefore, when you do merciful deeds, don’t sound a trumpet before yourself, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may get glory from men. Most certainly I tell you, they have received their reward. But when you do merciful deeds, don’t let your left hand know what your right hand does, so that your merciful deeds may be in secret, then your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.

Matthew 6:1–4

What would it look like to actually notice the people around me instead of only my own needs?

Paul's word to look to the interests of others is not mere observation but awareness that leads to a response. On the road from Jerusalem to Jericho, two men saw the wounded traveler and walked past; the Samaritan saw him and stopped. Seeing is where serving begins.

…each of you not just looking to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others.

Philippians 2:4

Jesus answered, “A certain man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he fell among robbers, who both stripped him and beat him, and departed, leaving him half dead. By chance a certain priest was going down that way. When he saw him, he passed by on the other side. In the same way a Levite also, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a certain Samaritan, as he traveled, came where he was. When he saw him, he was moved with compassion, came to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. He set him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him. On the next day, when he departed, he took out two denarii, gave them to the host, and said to him, ‘Take care of him. Whatever you spend beyond that, I will repay you when I return.’ Now which of these three do you think seemed to be a neighbor to him who fell among the robbers?” He said, “He who showed mercy on him.” Then Jesus said to him, “Go and do likewise.”

Luke 10:30–37

Ruth said, “Don’t urge me to leave you, and to return from following you, for where you go, I will go; and where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people, and your God my God. Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. May Yahweh do so to me, and more also, if anything but death parts you and me.”

Ruth 1:16–17

If Jesus is God, why would he take the form of a servant?

Paul says Jesus did not use his divine status as a detour around the cross but emptied himself and became obedient to death. Jesus never stopped being God, and being God did not keep him from being the greatest servant. The one who owed us nothing supplied humanity's greatest need.

Have this in your mind, which was also in Christ Jesus, who, existing in the form of God, didn’t consider equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being made in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death, yes, the death of the cross.

Philippians 2:5–8

…even as the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Matthew 20:28

Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into his hands, and that he came from God and was going to God, arose from supper, and laid aside his outer garments. He took a towel and wrapped a towel around his waist. Then he poured water into the basin, and began to wash the disciples’ feet and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped around him.

John 13:3–5