Sunday, October 25 · Christ Church NYC
A Renewed Mind Toward Our Enemies
Because Jesus has already made peace for us and given us his own love by the Spirit, Paul calls believers to respond to enemies and to everyone else with blessing, humility, and kindness rather than revenge.
The passages
Bless those who persecute you; bless, and don’t curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice. Weep with those who weep. Be of the same mind one toward another. Don’t set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Don’t be wise in your own conceits. Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, “Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.” Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.” Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Romans 12:14–21
…and hope doesn’t disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
Romans 5:5
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.
Proverbs 25:11
When they came to the place that is called “The Skull”, they crucified him there with the criminals, one on the right and the other on the left. Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” Dividing his garments among them, they cast lots.
Luke 23:33–34
When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews weeping who came with her, he groaned in the spirit and was troubled,…
John 11:33
Have this in your mind, which was also in Christ Jesus,…
Philippians 2:5
When he was cursed, he didn’t curse back. When he suffered, he didn’t threaten, but committed himself to him who judges righteously.
1 Peter 2:23
If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat. If he is thirsty, give him water to drink; for you will heap coals of fire on his head, and Yahweh will reward you.
Proverbs 25:21–22
Go deeper
Why does pursuing peace feel so unfair to me?
Paul admits that this kind of love is not natural to us; it has to be poured in. Jesus is the one who pursued peace with us while we were still enemies, and the Spirit keeps supplying that same love when it costs us something.
If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men.
Romans 12:18
…and hope doesn’t disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. For while we were yet weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. For one will hardly die for a righteous man. Yet perhaps for a good person someone would even dare to die. But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we will be saved from God’s wrath through him. For if while we were enemies, we were reconciled to God through the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we will be saved by his life.
Romans 5:5–10
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.
Matthew 5:9
For he is our peace, who made both one, and broke down the middle wall of separation, having abolished in his flesh the hostility, the law of commandments contained in ordinances, that he might create in himself one new man of the two, making peace, and might reconcile them both in one body to God through the cross, having killed the hostility through it. He came and preached peace to you who were far off and to those who were near.
Ephesians 2:14–17
How do I bless someone who is actively against me?
Jesus on the cross looked at the men who nailed him there and asked the Father to give them good things. The pastor's point is that blessing is calling on God to do good to a person, not pretending the harm did not happen.
Bless those who persecute you; bless, and don’t curse.
Romans 12:14
When they came to the place that is called “The Skull”, they crucified him there with the criminals, one on the right and the other on the left. Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” Dividing his garments among them, they cast lots.
Luke 23:33–34
But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, that you may be children of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the just and the unjust.
Matthew 5:44–45
…not rendering evil for evil or insult for insult; but instead blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.
1 Peter 3:9
What does it look like to be truly present with people who are happy and people who are grieving?
Jesus turns water into wine at a wedding and also, when he saw Mary weeping, he wept with her. The sermon holds both together: rejoicing with those who rejoice and weeping with those who weep is love that pays attention to the person in front of you.
Rejoice with those who rejoice. Weep with those who weep.
Romans 12:15
The third day, there was a wedding in Cana of Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there. Jesus also was invited, with his disciples, to the wedding. When the wine ran out, Jesus’ mother said to him, “They have no wine.” Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does that have to do with you and me? My hour has not yet come.” His mother said to the servants, “Whatever he says to you, do it.” Now there were six water pots of stone set there after the Jews’ way of purifying, containing two or three metretes apiece. Jesus said to them, “Fill the water pots with water.” So they filled them up to the brim. He said to them, “Now draw some out, and take it to the ruler of the feast.” So they took it. When the ruler of the feast tasted the water now become wine, and didn’t know where it came from (but the servants who had drawn the water knew), the ruler of the feast called the bridegroom and said to him, “Everyone serves the good wine first, and when the guests have drunk freely, then that which is worse. You have kept the good wine until now!” This beginning of his signs Jesus did in Cana of Galilee, and revealed his glory; and his disciples believed in him.
John 2:1–11
When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews weeping who came with her, he groaned in the spirit and was troubled, and said, “Where have you laid him?” They told him, “Lord, come and see.” Jesus wept.
John 11:33–35
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.
Proverbs 25:11
Why should it matter to me how other people see my response to a wrong?
Paul pictures a whole congregation thinking along with one another and choosing what is honorable in the sight of outsiders. The sermon's example is a rescuer on a subway platform whose daughters watched him, and the point is that our actions form the people who see them.
Be of the same mind one toward another. Don’t set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Don’t be wise in your own conceits. Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men.
Romans 12:16–17
Have this in your mind, which was also in Christ Jesus, who, existing in the form of God, didn’t consider equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being made in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death, yes, the death of the cross.
Philippians 2:5–8
Even so, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven.
Matthew 5:16
…having good behavior among the nations, so in that of which they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good works and glorify God in the day of visitation.
1 Peter 2:12
Is it wrong that I want the person who hurt me to pay?
Paul says the longing for justice is not the problem; the problem is wanting to hold the gavel. Entrusting judgment to God frees a person to release the offense, because God is the one who judges justly.
Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, “Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.” Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.” Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Romans 12:19–21
When he was cursed, he didn’t curse back. When he suffered, he didn’t threaten, but committed himself to him who judges righteously.
1 Peter 2:23
If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat. If he is thirsty, give him water to drink; for you will heap coals of fire on his head, and Yahweh will reward you.
Proverbs 25:21–22
Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men.
Romans 12:17